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Posted Saturday, September 30, 2006 8:55 PM


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Reading the threads about how people want a religious service at Easter's Mael so they can attend and celebrate I was wondering what the wider views on RL commitments that 'clash' with LARP are?

These will be mainly religious, but what about doctor's orders to rest up (I know one guy who went to an event they day after getting out of hospital after quite major surgery... He stayed wrapped up & dosed up on painkillers tho'!) or other major events - especially ones that do affect a large group of people? When should the organisers try to arrange around people's prior commitments? And when is it just tough luck?


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Posted Saturday, September 30, 2006 9:30 PM
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We are running Holdfast on easter weekend. Frankly, if anyone feels the need to go to church on sunday, they can walk down the road from the site to the church. That said, I tend to find that the church's (in the wider sense) attitude towards the hobby has ensured that they have very little following amongst LRPers that I know.

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Posted Sunday, October 01, 2006 3:21 AM
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Tad Harsh Mark about the wider church.

I'm both a Christian and a Lrper and I've attended all of the easter Maelstroms and each year I've found a local Church to attend an Easter Day Service.

I've always found the churchs in question to be welcoming and have had no problems with drop in Visitors.

As to the wider church, not so sure.  whilst there have been plenty of stories about the Christion Right being up in arms about how this hobby is a work of Satan etc etc,  I've always though of it as a minority view rather than the opinion of the Wider church.  Although I feel that might be a topic for a compleatly different thread.

Back on topic,  One thing that I have seen well recieved was when a Lions sanctioned event fell on rememberance Sunday and the Scouts who ran the site invited the players to attend a rememberance service.  They seem quite shocked when 100+ lrpers in full kit trooped over to take part as they had only done 20 or so hymnnsheets. So some recognition of the outside world is not so bad.

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Posted Sunday, October 01, 2006 10:07 AM


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I wouldn't have thought there were enough committed Christians in the community to justify holding a service at an event- as Mark said if you want to go to church then go, don't expect the game to wait.
Rememberance day isn't a Christian event- or even a religious one, it is a recognition of sacrifice and bravery that transcends all faiths, it just happens that in the UK we use the Christian faith as the vehicle through which we celebrate it, I think it's great that the Lions took part (as a hobby, we can be a bit anal about OC interference).
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Posted Sunday, October 01, 2006 4:19 PM
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sorry didn't mean to give the impression that I thought the rememberance sunday service was an example of a christian service,  If it were I doubt there would have been any like the numbers there.

The rememberance was given as an example of a non religous event that it was nice to see recognised.  Though I draw the line well below showing the football in the Bar at an event.

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Posted Sunday, October 01, 2006 10:12 PM


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Before this erupts into a full blown jihad... the thread was also about general commitments, not just religious ones. Though these are important and possibly the most controversial

We actually had a discussion on the way back from the event this weekend about our Dog. The upshot of the discussion was that we were going to minimise the number of events we attended where animals were not allowed to attend. Basically, we would rather miss an event, even an event we possibly enjoyed a lot, than be forced to put him in kennels more than necessary. So this is an example of commitments in RL influencing LRP.

Weddings (as well as other family and even friends social gatherings) are another example. We were forced to not book for Victoriana because there was a close family wedding that coincided and there was no way we could miss it without being churlish. There have been a number of other cases where this has occured. There was also a couple of players for Waypoint who recently told me that they may not be able to make the next event because some friends of theirs were having an important anniversary near that weekend and they may be expected to attend some celebration. As it was, there was no celebration (the couple clearly decided to go for doing couply things for the anniversary than a big party) so they later booked.

And a similar situation to the religious debate... I know of several people who were in two minds about attending one particular Maelstrom because it coincided with the first episode of the new Doctor Who...

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Posted Sunday, October 01, 2006 11:11 PM
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Ahem. Real Life is more important than Roleplay.

Sorry to be contravertial, but it's true. If there is an event with large, genuine OOC significance then it will (and I would argue should) almost always win over a LRP event. End of story, tbh.


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Posted Monday, October 02, 2006 1:08 PM
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Xarra (9/30/2006)
When should the organisers try to arrange around people's prior commitments? And when is it just tough luck?

I suppose the extent to which organisers should avoid clashes depends how many people will be inconvenienced by the clash and what it is. For example, the majority of my old Maelstrom group were invited to one group members' wedding during a Maelstrom weekend. It would have been very unreasonable to expect PD to rearrange. However, had it been, say, a Lions event then the invitees would have been nearly a quarter or the regular player base, and so the organisers arguably should look at finding a work around/compromise/pick a different weekend if possible.


Likewise if the player with a broken leg is the one the plot revolves around, it's more serious than if they're more background this event, and the organisers may be advised to compromise. But ultimately, it's up to the event runners rather than the players to make that call.

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Posted Monday, October 02, 2006 1:12 PM


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